THE BOOK YOUR
TEEN NEEDS
RIGHT NOW
101 Life Lessons Schools Never Taught Them
Dear Worried Parent,
We get it.
Raising a kid who's actually ready for the real world? Hard as hell.
You're lying awake at 2am wondering if they can handle an actual job interview.
Stressed about whether they'll fall for every credit card trap.
As your anxiety goes through the roof thinking about all the things they don't know.
And to top it all off...
They won't listen to a damn thing you say.
You've tried the heart-to-hearts about saving money. They nodded. Did nothing.
You've warned them about toxic relationships. They rolled their eyes.
You've explained work ethic. Boundaries. Responsibility.
They think you're nagging.
Should I lecture more? Send articles they won't read?
Hire a life coach they'll resent?
What about therapy?
Should I just... hope they figure it out?
*somebody please help*
The Communication Gap
Most parents have "I've tried everything" mixed with "they won't listen to me" and "I'm out of options."
Soon, they're screaming internally watching their kid make avoidable mistakes.
Also known as hell.
You're reading this right now because you're worried your kid isn't ready.
Or maybe they're doing okay... and you simply want MORE for them.
More confidence.
More financial security.
More healthy relationships.
More prepared for life.
It all starts by giving them wisdom from someone who isn't Mom or Dad.
Because sometimes the messenger matters more than the message.
*cue relief*
WHY THIS BOOK
WORKS WHEN YOUR
ADVICE DOESN'T
The Power of Multi-Generational Wisdom
This isn't another self-help book written by someone who got lucky once.
Nick Irmo and Vincent Polyanov witnessed something rare: a marriage and family that actually worked.
Their grandparents, Stephen and Helen Irmo, raised SEVEN CHILDREN with love, discipline, and practical wisdom that created lasting success across generations.
Seven children. All successful. All with strong values.
That doesn't happen by accident.
Stephen and Helen didn't just preach principles—they lived them daily. They built financial security without sacrificing family time. They created a legacy of integrity that their grandchildren are now sharing with yours.
Your Teen Gets:
Timeless principles that worked in your grandparents' era
Practical application for today's world
Specific, actionable steps (not vague inspiration)
Wisdom tested across multiple generations
The kind of wisdom that compounds.
And because it's coming from Nick and Vince—not from you—your teen will actually be open to receiving it.
WHAT'S INSIDE:
101 LESSONS
THAT COVER
EVERYTHING
Each lesson is 3-5 minutes. Jump to what they need RIGHT NOW.
RELATIONSHIPS
- Spot people who waste their time
- Set boundaries that demand respect
- Handle conflict like a pro
- Know when to walk away
ROMANCE
- Know yourself before loving someone else
- Chemistry vs compatibility (one fades, one lasts)
- Communicate without World War III
- Never settle out of fear
WEALTH
- Live below your means = Build wealth
- Pay yourself FIRST
- Avoid debt like the plague
- Compound interest magic: Start at 20 vs 30
HEALTH
- Your body = Your greatest asset
- Sleep is NON-NEGOTIABLE
- Food = Fuel (not entertainment)
- Read nutrition labels (beat marketing)
HYGIENE
- First impressions = Everything
- Grooming affects promotions (seriously)
- Hygiene = Confidence
WORK
- Show up early, get noticed
- Reputation = Professional gold
- Be a problem solver, not a maker
- Know when to walk away
EDUCATION
- Learning never stops
- Skills > Degrees (what you CAN DO)
- Learn how to learn (game changer)
- Failure = Best teacher
INFLUENCE
- Integrity > Manipulation
- Listen 2x more than you speak
- Know your audience, adjust your message
- Empower, don't control
ETHICS
- Do what's right, not what's easy
- Your word = Your bond
- Take responsibility (mark of maturity)
- Today's actions = Tomorrow's legacy
LESSON 101: BE YOU
Authenticity is their superpower. Stop pleasing everyone. Start being themselves.
20+ YEARS OF LESSONS
IN ONE WEEKEND
WHY THIS BOOK
ISN'T COLLECTING
DUST
You've bought them books before. They sat unread. NOT THIS ONE.
1WRITTEN FOR THEM, NOT AT THEM
No condescension. No talking down. Honest, real talk from people who've been there.
2101 LESSONS = ALWAYS RELEVANT
Relationship crisis? Lesson 2. First paycheck? Lessons 21-30. Bombed interview? Lesson 61. Lost? Lesson 101. A reference manual for life.
3PRACTICAL, NOT PREACHY
No "believe in yourself" fluff. Every lesson has WHAT they need, WHY it matters, and HOW to do it.
Example: Lesson 22 lists 401k, Roth IRA, CDs, REITs + shows compound growth math. REAL ACTION.
4TESTED WISDOM, NOT THEORY
7 children raised successfully. Military service. Entrepreneurship. Marriage. Parenthood. This is REAL wisdom from people who GOT IT RIGHT.
5USE IT FOR DECADES
At 19: Job searching. At 24: Career advancement. At 30: Leadership. ONE BOOK = DECADES OF VALUE.
The Kicker?
They'll use it when they become parents. Timeless wisdom that works in ANY ERA.
REAL
CHALLENGES
REAL SOLUTIONS
Not clichés. Not theory. ACTUAL answers to what they're facing RIGHT NOW.
Social media destroying their confidence?
Don't know how to build real friendships?
Clueless about money?
Burnt out and stressed?
Perfect Gift For:
Not just a gift—an investment in their future
What parents and young adults are saying
"I gave this to my son for his 21st birthday. Three months later, he casually mentioned he'd started investing 15% of his paycheck because of Lesson 22. I've been telling him to save for YEARS. He heard it from this book and actually did it."
Robert M.
Father of College Graduate
"My daughter keeps this on her nightstand. Last week she told me she used Lesson 2 to set boundaries with a toxic friend. She said 'I wish I'd read this in high school.' As a mom, that's all I needed to hear."
Patricia K.
Mother of 23-Year-Old
"I bought copies for both my kids (19 and 22). They're in completely different life stages but both found lessons that spoke directly to what they're going through right now. Worth every penny."
James T.
Father of Two
"She actually READ it. That alone shocked me. But then she started quoting lessons during our conversations—not in an annoying way, but thoughtfully. This book is doing what my lectures never could."
Linda S.
Mother Whose Daughter Actually Listened
Young Adult Reader Testimonials:
"My mom gave me this and I thought 'great, another book telling me what to do.' Then I read Lesson 61 about showing up early to work and tried it. Got noticed by my manager within two weeks. Now I actually reference this thing."
Marcus, Age 22
"It's not preachy, which is why it works. Lesson 47 about balancing your favorite foods instead of banning them completely changed how I think about diet. Finally, advice that's realistic."
Samantha, Age 19
"Lesson 101—'Be You'—hit me hard. I'd been trying to be what everyone expected instead of who I actually am. That one lesson was worth the whole book."
Jessica, Age 20
"My dad gave me this when I started my first real job. Lessons 61-70 on work ethic and reputation saved me from so many rookie mistakes. I'm the one my boss goes to now when something needs to get done."
Alex, Age 24, First Job Success
Frequently Asked Questions
About The Authors
Drawing from the timeless wisdom of grandparents Stephen and Helen Irmo—who epitomized integrity, generosity, and purpose while raising seven children.
Nicholas Gabriel Irmo
A versatile author from the Chicago suburbs who transforms everyday experiences into engaging stories for all ages. With a background in marketing and a passion for helping others, Nicholas brings warmth and authenticity to his writing.
Vincent Palizzolo Polyanov
Co-author who brings a love of classic storytelling and practical wisdom. Together with Nicholas, Vincent crafts books that blend timeless principles with modern application, helping readers navigate life's challenges.
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Within days (paperback) or seconds (Kindle), your teen or young adult will have 101 lessons that could change their trajectory.
Will they read it immediately? Maybe not.
Will they thank you right away? Probably not.
But six months from now, when they:
You'll know this gift made the difference.
And when they become parents themselves? They'll pass this wisdom to their own kids.
That's how legacies are built.
Not through lectures they tune out, but through wisdom they discover and own themselves.
Give them the gift of multi-generational wisdom. Give them Jumpstart Your Life.